Minggu, 30 Agustus 2009

Teachers Can Lying?

 Teachers, whether consciously or not, must never lie to yourself, students, or the principal for a particular purpose. Can teachers lie?

A psychologist from the University of Massachusetts, Robert Feldman, PhD, trying to find answers and spent 25 years to prove how often people lie and why they lie. In his book The Wild in Your Life: The Way to Truthful Relationships, Feldman said, the average 3 people say a lie every 10 minute. May sound excessive, but that's a fact that he got. Of course, teachers are also doing so is not it?

In fact, studies conducted by Feldman, note that the level of the respondents lies very high, lie to them has become very common and ordinary thing to the point that someone does not realize that he did. According to Feldman, lie has done been eating small, around age 2 or 3 years. The larger one, berbohongnya expertise was more secure. To the extent that if the test is performed with a lie detector might not be detected.

From these studies a lot of people say that they lied to survive, even many of those who are successful people and have a high position is really great liar.

What makes a teacher a lie? The answer is 'we lie because it works'. Teacher lied to get what he wants. For example, praised the school principal to get credit or benefits under certain, convince other teachers to believe what he wants and so on.

Techniques do not actually lie by man alone, almost all living things do, and one for the same reason to lie is to maintain life. If note, animal camouflage techniques that are simple lie technique. Most animals do camouflage to attract the opposite sex or looking for prey that ultimately aims to maintain life.

Then, what about humans? Need someone to lie to defend his life? The term white lie or a lie for the good is often used as an excuse for someone to perform self-defense. Most people lie to make others happy with what they say, like 'I agree with you' or 'dress it for you'. Lying is also done when someone wants to make conversation easier.

People who lie also tend to brag, as if to show that we are smarter or more capable than others. "It is a mechanism to defend themselves and enhance one's image," Feldman said, as quoted from AOLhealth, Wednesday (26/8/2009).

Whatever the reason, all people must never lie, do not need to refute. But, for teachers, if possible, lie committed for strengthening student achievement. For example, lying about people will go to heaven if clever. In fact, even a fool would go to heaven if they are worthy of heaven. Lying, if there are students in the last year that spirits rose because of homework. In fact, there is no such student.

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